Attacks aren't lightning strikes. They're processes — multi-step campaigns that take days, weeks, or months. Understanding the steps lets you build controls at each stage, so you don't have to catch the attacker on their first move (you usually won't).
The original Lockheed Martin Cyber Kill Chain has been around since 2011. It's been supplemented by MITRE ATT&CK (much more detailed) and the Diamond Model (more analytical), but the kill chain remains the cleanest mental model for explaining "how a breach works" to a non-specialist audience.